Being able to get eye contact from our Border Collies is a really important part of our general dog training. Dogs that are happy to look to their owners for permission to do things are easier to train and handle in every day life due to the connection they have with their owners.
But, for our Border Collies eye contact can be difficult. This is because Border Collies are bred to control livestock and use the 'Collie eye' to intimidate, move and control. And when working on sheep they will not be expected to look at the shepherd although they are still expected to respond to their cues. So it is not a natural behaviour for a Border Collie and may in fact cause them to feel pressured and uncomfortable.
Some Border Collies are reactive to people and other dogs when being approached from head on or if they are being stared at. This is totally understandable when we appreciate what they have been bred to do.
We can work with our Border Collie's though to help them feel more comfortable in giving eye contact. Below is an exercise to develop the skill.
Step 1 Scatter 3-4 treats on the floor
Step 2 Pause and deliver the next 3-4 treats more slowly
Step 3 Pause again and wait for the dog to lift their head from the floor. When they lift their head use a marker of either a clicker or a marker word like a 'Yes' and place the next treat on the floor
Step 4 Repeat step 3 but wait for the dog to look higher than in step 3.
Step 5 Repeat until your dog gives you eye contact. They may get stuck for a while at your hands if you have treats in them but wait until they look up at your face.
Step 6 Once your dog is offering eye contact then you can add a verbal cue. First place the treat on the floor and just before they look up use your new cue.
Step 7 Repeat until your eye contact is on cue
Some other tips to help your Border Collie feel comfortable with your eye contact is to blink while looking at the dog. Looking away and slightly closing the eyes are also ways which will soften your eye contact and help your Collie feel more comfortable.